Mother’s role in a married child’s life
On Mother’s Day, we often get wishes and messages relating to young moms. Mothers who have little children or even teens. Seldom do we see messages addressing mothers of grown up married children. So here is a short one for all the older moms, and of course the younger moms can glean a lot of wisdom from this too. When your child is 30 or 40 or even 50 years old, still you are a mother and your influence in their life has a huge impact on them and their family. When your child gets married, they are entering a new phase and so are you. The Bible says “A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife”. This applies to both son and daughter. Your son or daughter needs to leave you and cleave to their spouse. This does not mean you are not part of their life. The more you give them the freedom and independence, the more they will honour and cherish you. And much of the way they relate to you also depends on factors like, how did you treat your parents and ...